Today, I can’t stop thinking about Sicily (again). Is it too soon to start the countdown? We leave October 27th.
And it’s 100% motivation to keep moving forward with tackling the barn renovation. We haven’t made much progress, as we’ve had to take care of a few things on the main house. That, and I’m completely overwhelmed with starting the project.
I did think it might be a good idea to bring in an interior designer to help us draft up a plan. My rationale being: We’ll have so many renovations in our future, perhaps it would be good to see how a professional would tackle this? All the while learning a thing or two for the future. But this comes with a rather hefty (more hefty than I thought) price tag. So we’re still weighing our options. I think the next step is to gather quotes from a handful of general contractors.
Any tips to pass along when working with general contractors? I’m all ears!
Pictures from Gardenista blog post.
I’ve been coming to terms with being a family of three for awhile. (O is almost one.) It took me awhile to come around to the idea that he’s not going anywhere. Don’t get me wrong, I love the little stinker. But I am quick to say I am not an instant mom. (A mom who seems to have a switch and knows how to be a mom from day zero.) I wish I could be, but I’m not built that way. So it took me a bit of time to (1) realize and (2) embrace the facts.
There are SO many other factors that go into this. But regardless I wanted to send a message out there to moms to say it’s OK to ease into family life. There can be lots of joy and laughter as you figure things out and move a bit slower than everything else around you.
What about you? Did you jump in and not look back? Or are you a one-foot-in-at-a-time kind of person too?
Photo taken by Dad. This is Owen’s introduction to falafel. (He loves it.)
This title could mean so many things. But today, it’s about a company pioneering travel and service projects with a focus on providing unique and real-world educational experiences. (Think interviewing elders in Laos.) Also, they have Gap Year programs. How cool is that?
Blair and I both dream about traveling across the country on “educational vacations” with our son. We’d, of course, travel in something like this. But I think we should add a Rustic Pathways experience to the dream list. And so, today I created a new Pinterest board, “Future adventures with Owen“. You know, just in case.
Do you keep a list of future activities for yourself or your family? How often to you add/update it?
PS A family of 5 and a cat traveling the country in a Airstream
This is a repost I take absolutely no credit for, but I have to share it. Thank you Tanja, for sending this my way. And thank you Harper’s Bazaar for compiling the list: Great Outdoors: 10 Al Fresco Dining Spots.
I want to go to every single one, but I’m especially excited to try #1 & #4. (Oh, ok and #3.)
I’ve been day dreaming of a bike ride for the last couple months. Today it happened. Cloudy weather be damned. I haven’t been on a bike since last May! And it felt so good. B & I clocked twenty-six miles with a stop for lunch in between. That’s a good use of day light, if you ask me.
We can’t wait to start bringing little O with us. When did you start taking rides with your little one? And what did you use?
Enjoy your holiday weekend. Hope it’s full of good food and good people.
PS Photo above is from a 90 mile Plymouth, MA to Provincetown, MA ride B & I planned almost five years ago! We’ve always said we wanted to do it again.
Do you vacation at the same spots each year? I have never been prone to that philosophy. But I can certainly see the convenience of it. You don’t have to spend energy learning the area, figuring out where to buy essentials, wasting time or money on the restaurants not worthy of your service. We do end up heading to Bar Harbor most every summer with B’s family for a car camping extravaganza. And each year we go, we are able to explore a bit more. Two years ago we went rock climbing! And of course, there’s always one more hike, bike ride or swimming hole to explore.
One of my friend’s is exploring the idea of a designated vacation retreat now that she has a family of four to entertain. It’s not so much the physical spot as it is the idea of carving out intentional family togetherness — and not of the forced fun nature. She shared a story of one family who has been quite good at making this happen on a lake in New Hampshire. And even though her three boys are all grown up, they continue to be very comfortable and supportive of one another because they had so much time to bond and be themselves while retreating to their space on the lake. I think this is a beautiful idea. And as much as we race around to finish our errands, help out our friends, and keep up with our jobs, it’s more important that we are just as protective and determined to be still and enjoy just being together.
So maybe I’ll rethink the idea of go-to vacation. How about you?